To buy or not to buy..

so the last few weeks have been going blissfully well ... gosh i hope i didn't jinx it by saying that aloud. but tis true~ the world is a pretty and better place... :)

The family have been making a greater effort to be nice to me and vice versa so that is going well. I think its just sunken in to one and all that come next year there will be no more me to yell at !!

in other news its the better halfs birthday and despite my various monetary concerns and constraints i have decided to surprise him and go visit. Now in order to do this i had to go through many hassles which included obtaining a new credit card with a large limit ... which is very scary for me as my money management skills are undoubtedly TERRIBLE !! I have discussed my new pay back plan with many friends and while it is by no mean full proof ones got to do wot ones got to do... true love knows no boundaries ~ ( except maybe a few financial ones /!!)


so now plans have been made friends have been called, The only dilemna i am facing at the moment is if i need to buy the better half a present... My going there has to be a good present right! I mean i would love to splurge on him but any more spending and I may have to sell myself and my soul...